Bosses reveal worst wardrobe dont's
By Sarah B. Weir
Certified Image Consultant and Chair of the Association of Image
Consultants International, Kelly Mashbitz worries about what
messages some women today are sending with their office attire.
“I’ve noticed that Casual Fridays have morphed into ‘Happy Hour’
Fridays -- you can tell who’s got a date that night by what they
wear to the office that day.”
She points out that you only have 30-40 seconds to make a first
impression on your boss or co-worker so what you wear is going to
instantly signal how smart and competent you are, for better or
worse. Kelly feels the more skin you show, the less power you
project: “If you are sitting next to a male
colleague in a three-piece suit and you wearing a strappy dress,
who do you think is going to command the respect?”
Kelly recommends that women have three separate wardrobes: one
for the office, one for the weekend, and another for special
occasions. While this might seem a little old school, she explains
that fashion magazines like to mix casual and professional
clothing, but the average person simply doesn’t have the eye or the
experience to combine styles in one outfit.
We talked to some managers and executives around the country
about the worst wardrobe blunders, and bosses agree that
conservative professional attire is still relevant today. It seems
that looks can kill…your job prospects.
“My personal secretary was a very presentable young woman, well
educated, neat, and pulled together. After about a year on the job,
her wardrobe fell off a cliff: she started showing up in men’s wool
pants that looked like they had been pulled from a dumpster and
moth-eaten sweaters. It was a crystal clear sign that she no longer
cared about the work and needed to move on.”
--Alan, Senior Diplomat
“Over the two decades I’ve been practicing
law, I’ve noticed women going from professional suits (great) to
lovely dresses (all good) to strappy sundresses and flip flops
(pathetic)! Dressing this way for Court takes away from their
credibility. Clothes in the office have gotten very casual, which
is okay, I suppose, but there are certain venues that one needs to
respect and dress appropriately for.”
--Anne, Law Partner
“Too much skin and too much perfume. One of my sales reps
is just shy of inappropriate: Her clothes are stylish and made with
quality fabrics, but the skirts are a couple of inches too short,
the heels a couple of inches too high, and the camisoles a couple
of shades too sheer. A strapless cocktail dress has appeared a few
times. I’m not going to complain to HR, but with the party look and
the perfume, she makes people uncomfortable.”
--Greg, Financial Services Head of Marketing
“When our company first established Casual Fridays, some of the
employees took it too far with their Daisy Dukes—the cutoffs that
ride very high. HR had to send out a dress code memo. One memorable
rule was ‘no cleavage’ – toe cleavage, that is.”
--Stephanie, Money Manager
“My cosmetics studio is close to the beach. One day a
young woman pranced in wearing a bikini and flip flops and asked
for a job application. Needless to say, we were ‘out of
applications’ that day.”
--Kara, Professional Make-up Artist
“One of our crazy reporters showed up in her wedding
dress. And it looked like it had been quite a party—pretty grubby
around the edges!”
--Leslie, Newspaper Publisher
“The charter school where I work strives for excellence and
professionalism—from both students and teachers. Male teachers
simply wear a tie, but for women the dress code is a little less
clear, especially since many of them are right out of college and
used to dressing in jeans. One woman is always straddling the line
with her outfits and is the subject of regular teacher’s lounge
debates about whether or not she has crossed it. Parent-teacher
conference day rolled around and she appeared for breakfast in the
cafeteria in black high-heeled boots, a tee-shirt mini dress with a
keyhole back and a wide patent leather belt. I made a mental note
to mention it to the principal before the parents came in the
afternoon. At lunch I noticed the teacher wasn’t there—turns out
the principal had already sent her home.”
--Abby, Assistant Principal
“A couple of years ago, we merged with a French company.
The new HR representative came to do a workshop with my team—a
bunch of young science geeks who build robots in their spare time.
Well, she was wearing one of those clingy wrap dresses that was cut
very low in front. The guys definitely had their minds on something
aside from the presentation that day.”
--Mary, Biotech Vice President
“Our summer interns are notorious for their outfits. From
bra straps hanging out to hot pants. Thank goodness the bare
midriff style seems to have waned. They would wear a cropped top
with low cut jeans and a thong peeking out the back! It’s one thing
hanging out with your girlfriends, but at your workplace? Come
on.”
--Laurie, Film Producer
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